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The love of normal people and the "love" mentioned in near death experience.
Love is a nice word, but it is only "a word", it can carry many different meanings.
When we hear many "love" elements mentioned in near death experience, the first reaction is to feel happy, because it seems there is a loving God who cares about us, and will give everything a justice and meaningfulness. This is also what is expressed similarly by many nders.
But, the first impression is not a mature analysis. When you think deeper, you will find the "love" mentioned in near death experience is not "the same love" as we know, and, to be honest, the weird love mentioned in near death experience, seems to indicate something, opposite to the loveliness that the word love normally implies, something that is actually weird and abnormal, or even terrible and dark.
The love mentioned in near death experience, is NOT A GOOD SIGN, but carries some quite opposite, sinister aura.
Let me explain. When a normal person meets a "long time no see" beloved one, the first reaction ought to be, asking:
Where have you been?
Are you ok there?
What next shall we do?
OK, let's see near death experiences, the nders never asked these questions, weirdly, they just "feel happy".
Imagine if your daughter went abroad a foreign country unfamiliar to you, say, China, and have been studying and living there for three years, and you now go to her university for attending her graduation ceremony, this is the first time you meet her for three years, and for some reasons, you didn't even contact with her ever once during these three years. What are the highest priority words you want to speak with her? Will you want to say:
I understand everything.
Everything is connected.
We are much much loved by God.
We are here to learn by experience.
And so on....
No! As normal, sane people, we won't want to say these to our daughters under this circumstance. Our first priority should be:
Are you enjoying being here?
Are you safe here?
Is the food here adaptive to your appetite?
Has your studying been going well?
What's your future plan?
Do you miss me?
What can I help you?
In short, under these unsure and important circumstances, normal, sane people will care and will be worried about "the practical, specific, detailed, tangible" things, rather than philosophical claims and "big statements".
I can't understand why so many nders don't care about, or, they even try to escape any specific event, question, and the real details, rather, they seem to be obsessed by an accustomed inclination to "big claims", like "Everything is understood. Everything is connected. Love is the most important thing. We are part of God. We are here to learn."
The "big claims" are hollow and meaningless, especially extremely meaningless in a situation that you find you are in a completely unknown realm. Actually visiting an unknown realm is like an elite soldier in a special troop entered a very dangerous region, he should feel extremely vigilant and try to seek and glean every information to identify his environment and prepare for the danger which can be coming at any imminent time. He should more or less distrust anything he sees, hears, encounters, rather than let whatever mechanism wraps him in a non-defensive non-doubtful ease.
Near death experiences are weird, abnormal, insane, delusive, rather than transcendent, enlightened, revealing, delighted.
By the weird behavior, reaction of nders, and their weird attention and concern, it is more like a brain damage, mental illness, rather than proof of afterlife or another world.
Could anyone else provide different opinions? Is my thought reasonable? Shouldn't we feel near death experiences are a weird phenomenon, if not a bad and dark sinister, rather than expressed by the superficially lovely word: "love"?
Love is a nice word, but it is only "a word", it can carry many different meanings.
When we hear many "love" elements mentioned in near death experience, the first reaction is to feel happy, because it seems there is a loving God who cares about us, and will give everything a justice and meaningfulness. This is also what is expressed similarly by many nders.
But, the first impression is not a mature analysis. When you think deeper, you will find the "love" mentioned in near death experience is not "the same love" as we know, and, to be honest, the weird love mentioned in near death experience, seems to indicate something, opposite to the loveliness that the word love normally implies, something that is actually weird and abnormal, or even terrible and dark.
The love mentioned in near death experience, is NOT A GOOD SIGN, but carries some quite opposite, sinister aura.
Let me explain. When a normal person meets a "long time no see" beloved one, the first reaction ought to be, asking:
Where have you been?
Are you ok there?
What next shall we do?
OK, let's see near death experiences, the nders never asked these questions, weirdly, they just "feel happy".
Imagine if your daughter went abroad a foreign country unfamiliar to you, say, China, and have been studying and living there for three years, and you now go to her university for attending her graduation ceremony, this is the first time you meet her for three years, and for some reasons, you didn't even contact with her ever once during these three years. What are the highest priority words you want to speak with her? Will you want to say:
I understand everything.
Everything is connected.
We are much much loved by God.
We are here to learn by experience.
And so on....
No! As normal, sane people, we won't want to say these to our daughters under this circumstance. Our first priority should be:
Are you enjoying being here?
Are you safe here?
Is the food here adaptive to your appetite?
Has your studying been going well?
What's your future plan?
Do you miss me?
What can I help you?
In short, under these unsure and important circumstances, normal, sane people will care and will be worried about "the practical, specific, detailed, tangible" things, rather than philosophical claims and "big statements".
I can't understand why so many nders don't care about, or, they even try to escape any specific event, question, and the real details, rather, they seem to be obsessed by an accustomed inclination to "big claims", like "Everything is understood. Everything is connected. Love is the most important thing. We are part of God. We are here to learn."
The "big claims" are hollow and meaningless, especially extremely meaningless in a situation that you find you are in a completely unknown realm. Actually visiting an unknown realm is like an elite soldier in a special troop entered a very dangerous region, he should feel extremely vigilant and try to seek and glean every information to identify his environment and prepare for the danger which can be coming at any imminent time. He should more or less distrust anything he sees, hears, encounters, rather than let whatever mechanism wraps him in a non-defensive non-doubtful ease.
Near death experiences are weird, abnormal, insane, delusive, rather than transcendent, enlightened, revealing, delighted.
By the weird behavior, reaction of nders, and their weird attention and concern, it is more like a brain damage, mental illness, rather than proof of afterlife or another world.
Could anyone else provide different opinions? Is my thought reasonable? Shouldn't we feel near death experiences are a weird phenomenon, if not a bad and dark sinister, rather than expressed by the superficially lovely word: "love"?