I can't unless they see debate as entertainment. Their "being upset" is nothing more than a drugless high which for some odd reason (pride? cough) feel compelled to argue.
Well they may not want their social media or personal life clogged with garbage about how they're a dupe/dope. Kind of like if you're part of a disaster recovery crew-gone-wrong and people hate you for things that you didn't intend to screw up, or like LGBTs don't want to deal with being told they're a monster every day.
Some people have put in a lot of thought and want their line of reasoning to be respected. I can get behind that.