[quote="Craig Weiler, post: 55556, member: 13"
The longtime skeptics on this forum have never had any respect for us and the longtime proponents generally return the favor. So there is an ongoing animosity here. With people like Arouet, Paul, Linda, Malf, et. al., who have been skeptics for years and just argue ad infinitum, expressing doubt over and over again over the course of years, there is no reason for people like me to expend the energy for a lengthy answer to anything.
This is absolutely untrue - and I apologise if I have given that impression. I react snippely at times in reaction to snark, but I rarely mock (maybe lightly tease at time). I have tried to express that I consider the psi hypothesis, and parapsychology to be valid. I don't think most psi proponents are "nuts" and I think they have reasons for their beliefs. I don't use terms like woo, and I don't think every proponent is a gullible fools.
That, to me, is showing respect. Frankly, I only go through the effort of explaining myself in detail when I have respect for someone. It drives me nuts when I can tell someone disagrees with me but doesn't say so. To me, that is not respect. Neither is it respectful to criticise someone without providing reasons. Nor to respond to someone as if they have made comments that they never made.
I've been on a multi-year campaign to encourage all members of the forum to treat each other with respect. I know you know this.
It doesn't have to be this way. And as someone earlier pointed out, if that's all you want to do, then why participate in a discussion forum at all?
I don't think there's really no such thing as "having one's mind made up." We have biases. Those biases are inbuilt and VERY difficult to change. We all have these biases. Every. Single. One. Of. Us. And yet minds change all the time. On big things and subtle things. We can guess what will think will likely change our minds but the actual changing of opinion is an involuntary process.
Here's the thing: if you're not interested in having real discussion, then why comment at all? Just stay out of it.