Good mediums will not ask for information, and certainly wouldn't ask who you'd like to connect with. If anything they will positively deter you from offering anything other than 'yes' and 'no' to pieces of information they give you and they should not be asking questions other than whether you understand what they have said.
However, when he read my brother-in-law and my wife, things seem different. He didn't have to ask those questions. It seemed more fluid. Yes ... it would be nice if he mentioned the Kool-Aid specifically. However my mother-in-law (according to my wife) also liked grape popsicles when she was on her death bed as well. It seemed she liked anything grape. Oh! And another tidbit is that no one mentioned to the medium she was in the hospital or even how she died before he started asking about smelling grapes. Duh ... perhaps I should mentioned that too. Sorry ... I'm still processing this.
Anyway, allow me to add to this later. Perhaps you may find it more interesting when I add more details to the overall reading.