Well then, my advice is to do some serious research, or start enjoining a worldview whose meaning doesn't depend on any of it. This is what I have done. Secular humanism, for example, is a great philosophy, where the focus of life is people, here and now—with tenets that hold regardless of whether mind is local, non-local, or a meat machine.
In my opinion, it's all about the point of view, and this is where I profoundly disagree with people like Alex, who argue that life would be vacuous without the paranormal. We don't need NDEs, mediums, or parapsychology to prove psi or the afterlife; all we need is what we have already: ourselves, other people, and the world—whatever the ultimate reality is. This tiny speck of dust, suspended in the cosmos (as Carl Sagan would say), is chock full of people who are convinced that the particular shade of rose that tints their glasses is the one that gives life the most excitement, vivacity, purpose, and beauty; but unbeknownst to them countless worldviews with categorically divergent methods of being provide lives as fruitful and joyful as their own.