But I wouldn't extract from our reality's regularities to assumed lawfulness on the other side. After all, what makes the incoherence of QM resolve into a seemingly classical world remains a mystery.
It just seems to me that even dissolution of self into Brahman is hardly a sure thing. MAL could be insane, and Its madness is the fracturing of Itself into individuals within Its own Dream-of-Everything. I don't know if I'd be that disappointed to find myself in an afterlife as ungoverned & imperfect as this existence, given I'm not convinced by the idea that dissolution of self into Brahman - or for that matter unification with God - is equivalent to transcendence.
I think these both might be deceptions or misinterpretations, assuming there's anything at all to be unified with.