What you say has a lot of evidence backing it up of course. And even though I've personally had UFO experiences, I still have to concentrate on logic to reach the conclusion that these ufo beings are manipulating global politics.
I had a very brief but interesting email exchange with robert hastings ( the definitive authority on UFOs in nukes) on this. I detect a subtle but significant shift in his position. 20 years ago he was saying that ET is giving us a wake-up call regarding the nukes. he now seems to be saying the me message may be " it's in our mutual interest." as in, I don't really give a crap what happens to you, but I have a stick and you not blowing up this planet.
this may be much more in line with what you're saying