I like what you've said b/c it leads into what Wm got into briefly: that our physical life is dreaming, the life many experience as a result of psychedelics, an NDE, etc. is realer than REAL. Alex had on a guy who was into lucid dreaming far beyond what many would consider doing. He told about a Tibetan lucid dreaming master who first words in a class were "this...dreaming!"Many of us will be aware of that as the choice narrows. And experience completely different things.
I know which road I'm on! I've been putting one foot in front of the other on that path my entire life. Now the reasons are becoming apparent.